“Giving is the highest expression of potency. In the very act of giving, I experience my strength, my wealth, my power. This experience of heightened vitality and potency fills me with joy. I experience myself as overflowing, spending, alive, hence as joyous. Giving is more joyous than receiving, not because it is a deprivation, but because in the act of giving lies the expression of my aliveness.”
~ Erich Fromm

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“Words can be twisted into any shape. Promises can be made to lull the heart and seduce the soul. In the final analysis, words mean nothing. They are labels we give things in an effort to wrap our puny little brains around their underlying natures, when ninety-nine percent of the time the totality of the reality is an entirely different beast. The wisest man is the silent one. Examine his actions. Judge him by them.

Karen Marie Moning

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“Nobody should be judged on their looks. Beauty is not found on the body but in the soul. The only thing the media has done is change the definition of the word. I mean being attractive may make it easier to catch some one but being kind and loving is how you keep some one. Also with make up its like putting on a mask some masks are creative and fun most others are just used to cover who you really are up. Be yourself.”
― Danyon Guthrie-lewis

Your never to old to learn after mistakes you make in life

Your never to old to learn after mistakes you make in life.  Its when you acknowledge that there your mistakes without putting blame on another. I choose to learn off these mistakes, and not repeat them. Recently, I have  been dealing with some resentments.

Loaning my laptop out, and also money to a individual some time ago. My expectations where getting my laptop back, and the money to be repaid when applicable.
After a long period of time and our relationship not being as close, I did ask for the Laptop back. The response was, its at a repair shop getting bank Information off, and will be returned..
Keep in mind this was months ago, and now we don’t speak. So know, Im out of a laptop, and the money I lent out.
      With a valuable lessoned learned. I learned not everyone thinks as I do. When I borrow things, and if I do, I know there not mine. I feel bad holding onto things for too long. Loaning a person money, and then seeing them buy expensive things is hurting. So my lesson taught me to look at it a different way.
If I lend something to someone, will this hurt me financially?  When I lend out anything,
I need to actually not expect it back!  Now I’m letting this go and moving on.
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